Welcome

ULENDO is the Chichewa word for journey. This site is the greatest journey known to man, exploring the meaning of life, our consciousness and our happiness. It explains how we're all connected by a field of energy and programmed for growth. It is my intention to add frequent thoughts to this site which will ultimately become the material for a book on this subject. By opening these thoughts to friends, we can co-create our ideas together. Please join me on the journey. Profits from the sales of the book "ULENDO" will support the Open Arms Infant Homes in Malawi.

If you'd like to be a scout on the ULENDO adventure, taking it to places new, please email me with your thoughts or questions. Or if you'd like to tarry a while to explore a place we've already reached, providing deeper insight, simply add your comments to the particular entry.

Remember that the entries appearing first below are the most recent ones. New friends might like to check out earlier entries first in order to make sense of the journey.


Wednesday, 30 June 2010

Confidence unpicked

 According to Wikipedia: confidence is generally described as a state of being certain either that a hypothesis or prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best or most effective. Self-confidence is having confidence in oneself. Arrogance or hubris in this comparison, is having unmerited confidence—believing something or someone is capable or correct when they are not. Overconfidence or presumptuousness is excessive belief, in someone or something, succeeding, without any regard for failure. Scientifically, a situation can only be judged after the aim has been achieved or not. Confidence can be a self-fulfilling prophecy as those without it may fail or not try because they lack it and those with it may succeed because they have it rather than because of an innate ability.

Tuesday, 15 June 2010

Healing energy

A strange thing happened to me recently.  I was talking with an accomplished therapist who is well connected and respected in "alternative therapy" circles.  I was staggered by her comment, "Clive you will be a great healer".  I suppose in my mind I envisaged Reiki or something like that and could not see in a million years how that would fit with my career as a writer, speaker and coach.  I asked her what she meant and she just commented on "my energy".

Sunday, 6 June 2010

our calling

The phrase "our calling" is an interesting one.  It is used mainly in spiritual or professional contexts and particularly where these two overlap.  But is our calling wider than that?  Our life journey takes many twists and turns and the way we respond to seemingly insignificant circumstances can change the whole course of history, not just ours but the bigger picture too.